Last night before I went to bed, I watched a Facebook live feed from Jason Wrobel. The headline for the feed was “praying for what you don’t want”. Jason talked about how so many times we tend to focus our thoughts on the bad things that are happening or could be happening in the future to us. These thoughts are manifested into stress and anxiety and really do us no good at all. They leave us inadvertently “praying for what you don’t want”. Instead, he suggested that we be thankful for the things we have been blessed with in our everyday lives. As well as to be genuinely happy for others and the things they have been blessed with. Instead of judging people or being jealous of their gains, we should embrace them. The more we embrace these things the more likely we are to bring those same joys and gains into our own lives.
Yesterday, I also starting reading a book called: “Citizen Thoreau” by Henry David Thoreau. It is a collection of Thoreau’s greatest short stories. I know I am probably a little behind the times with discovering Thoreau. I have heard over and over again that a lot of his work was required reading in high school and college. Maybe he and I have crossed paths before, but I cannot recall. In high school was probably not interested in his work because I hadn’t yet grown enough to really understand the world around me, as so many of us hadn’t at such a young age. The main story that I was interested in is titled “Walden“. I have only just started into it, but Thoreau touches on what our basic needs are as humans and how we forget just how little we actually require to live a fruitful and peaceful life. We need shelter of course, and food. Along with those things we need heat. Heat to cook our food, warm our homes (shelters) and really not too much else. But we live our day-to-day, working for so much more. More luxury. More things. More than we ever could really ever need. We trade our time, our lives, just to attain more stuff.
I learned of Thoreau through another set of people who I have been following, The Minimalist. I have mentioned The Minimalist in a prior blog and have really been avid follower of them. I have learned so much about living with less and because of that, being so much more grateful for all the things I already have in my life. And a lot of these “things” are not things at all.
So, I woke up this morning and I got to thinking about all of the “riches” I have in my life; that my husband and I share together. So here I am. I am even grateful for the fact that these thoughts brought me here today to share them with all of you. I haven’t spent nearly as much time as I used to on my blog and that does sadden me. I’m hoping to turn that around soon. Today the fire was lit under me. After having all these thoughts I just felt inspired to write. Like if I hadn’t I would have regretted it and that was not how I wanted to choose to start my day or weekend. So below is a list of everything (well probably not everything) that I feel grateful for today. I hope by sharing this, maybe someone else, that maybe in a bad spot, may realize that they live a richer life then they once believed?
–I am grateful for my husband. He is a hard worker and has an amazing job. He loves to provide for us and loves and cares very deeply for me. We may not always get along or see things the same way but overall I know he is a wonderful man and I love growing with him everyday.
–I am grateful for my friends. I have a very (very) small group of friends but they are more like family to me. And even though I may not spend a lot of time with them (I am more introverted in that way) I always feel like we just pick up right were we left off and that they have my back no matter what.
–I am grateful for my fur-babies. I have a wonderful cat named Sammi. She and her sister Raspberry (who we had to say goodbye to about two months ago) have been the best little babies I could have ever asked for. They followed me through the last 13 years of my life. They have always been there through the good and the bad and I have always tried to do the best for them in return. I cannot imagine life without pets. I also have a rabbit that I love dearly. I never thought I would be a mommy bunny but she came to us by the powers of the universe and I am glad to have her. We are also adopting two sisters kittens next week that we are very excited about adding to our family. We miss Raspberry dearly, but we also have too much love to give to another animal that it just seems right to give a home to these little girls.
–I am grateful for our home. We have a little condo on the very northwestern edge of Austin. It has been the first place that I have lived in the past 13 years that has truly felt like home. It is small by todays standards, but it is cozy and filled with love.
–I am grateful for my job. I have had many jobs in the past that I have loved, but this is the first one that I really feel like I am apart of. I work for a small business that is steadily growing. My boss and his business partner have been wonderful to me over the past year. Being the only employee has been great. Having the freedom to set my own schedule has been priceless and feeling like I am apart of something in its infant stages is wonderful. I am so glad that I can be apart of helping it to grow.
–I am grateful for my parents. Just because they are lower on this list, doesn’t mean they have less value to me. I could not be who I am today without them. They have supported me with their love throughout my whole life. They have guided me but have always let me choose which path to take at the fork. I love them so dearly couldn’t have asked for a better two people to call mom and dad. It makes me so sad when I hear other people say they are not close to their parents. I cannot imagine my life in those circumstances, so again I say how grateful I am for them.
–I am grateful for the money that we have in our savings. I know that money is not everything. I do not wish to be “rich” and money does not make you more powerful (at least not in my eyes). But having a good foundation does make our everyday life a little less stressful. It allows us to have the roof we have over our heads and the food we put in our mouths. It allows us to care for the fur-babies that depend on us for literally their whole wellbeing. We have dependable cars and can afford to eat a good meal for every meal of the day. It keeps our house cool in the summer and warm in the winter. It allows me the means to write this very blog on my computer using our internet. I try to be as humble as possible when it comes to money. I try not to let it rule my every decision and by living with less, I worry less about it.
–I am grateful for my health. I really try to do the best that I can for my body and health. I try to eat the best foods that I can afford and not waste. I am vegan, which has to do with my health as well as the health of every living creature on this planet. I try not to take my health for granted. I love sweets but I try to remember that everything is better in moderation. I always remind myself that you cannot out-run your fork and not to reward myself like a dog! I consider myself a runner and attribute a lot of my good health to that passion. And by learning to live a more meaningful life, I believe my health will improve even more.
I’m sure there are a lot more things that I take for granted that I am grateful for. There are people in my life that provide services to my husband and I that I am very grateful for like our therapist and our vet clinic, hell even my hairdresser!
We sometimes forget that it can take a village to really learn how to grow. That has become a sad fact in the past 10-15 years. I feel like as humans, with the technology that we have available to us, have lost touch with each other. I am grateful that I have learned of so many great leaders, life coaches, bloggers, etc. via the internet but at the same time I find myself feeling more distance from actually human interaction more than ever. We are probably all guilty of this. It is easier to sign onto social media and keep in touch with our “friends” through text and “likes” then it is to just sit down and have lunch or tea together. But this form of communication can feel cold and impersonal. I think as a planet we all need to come together for the greater good of humanity. That’s a pretty bold statement but the sense of community is slowly disappearing and that is a very lonely thought.
So be grateful for all that you have and really dig deep and reach out to the people and places that are important to you. Don’t take anything for granted and learn to live a more intentional life.